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Aunt Hazel’s Mating
Game Advice
Are you single and serious about desiring a mate? The first item on your list should be to pray
and ask the Lord to send that special “Jesus loving” person to across your
path.
Church is usually the perfect place to find a Christian
mate, but don’t discount other places or ways for this to happen. After all, not every good prospect attends YOUR church!
Small-groups in your church are a good spot to find
eligible men or women! Do join a small
Christian group! Of course, do not fail
to participate in the discussions at a Bible study. Men like a woman who speaks out, but watch
out! The ladies who want to argue or
talk non-stop will cause a man to lose interest quickly!
Men also do not like grouchy, complaining women, so put on a
joyful face and watch your words. In public or anytime - -
grumbling is so unbecoming!
Women want a man who will open up and talk to them, and at
least tell them they look nice, and they are pretty or beautiful. If he can cook, that helps too. J
What about qualities? I had a friend who made a list of the
traits she wanted in a husband. Each
night she would pray as she went over her list, and she would tell the Lord
that she believed He was bringing this type of person into her life. As I recall, most of the qualities were there
when she did find a good husband.
I do not believe she settled for less. The simple fact is that no one is completely
perfect and her expectations were very high.
Of course, now she knows that there are always compromises in a marriage
- especially if one desires peace in the household. Treating each other with kindness and respect
is vital to any relationship. Not always
wanting the “last word,” can save a marriage!
Not necessarily suggested, but my youngest daughter found her
wonderful husband through a Christian dating service, so pray and
investigate. There is an internet site
that reviews Christian dating
services: - - interestingly enough,
they do NOT recommend some of the more popular companies such as e-Harmony. In fact the only one they recommend is Christian Café.
Some friends of mine have found they are happy to remain
single; and there are many reasons for this, too.
The Bible tells us above all, to learn to be content! Do not be afraid to enjoy life, in whatever
station you find yourself.
Proverbs 18:22 Who
ever finds a wife (or husband) finds a good thing, and obtains favor of the
LORD.
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